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I don't want this moment,
To ever end,
Where everything's nothing,
Without you.
I'll wait here forever just to,
To see you smile,
Cause it's true,
I am nothing without you.

Life, has numerous challenges. Love, is even more.

Sunday, April 17, 2011, 7:00 PM

Sometimes in life, things don't really go your way. You may just want everything to be perfectly normal and awesome between you and your partner, like how it is most of the time everyday. It just feel so great to wake up with the feeling of looking forward to meet your partner and you know that you have the whole day meant for just you and him. But sometimes, when your partner seems so busy everyday with his life with just friends, you tend to feel very alone, very insecure and very neglected. I strongly believe it is something normal to feel like that as it means your partner is either really pushing you aside or you really are in need for his company. It signifies that the length of time your partner is missing has been too long and is not normal because if you have known him well, you would know the average timing and period that he would be occupied and the number of days since your partner really put aside specially just for you to spend quality time together. You don't want to be called selfish or clingy as if you pester too much, it would seem that you just want to keep him for yourself. Obviously friends are important. Especially when you have spent 3 days 2 nights with them for camps, friendship ties get closer. But there is seriously no necessity for you to meet them every single day without fail and you know what, most of the time for leisure outings or hanging out. And guess what? That will be the reason that will be used for you not being able to meet your partner. And oh ya, because your partner is not able to go home late, all the more you have a reason to forgo any time you are suppose to have with your partner because you already have the same old recurring plans for the day with that same circle of friends. Not trying to make things complicated here but what's the use of tightening an already tightened friendship ties when in fact, your partner is suffering and maybe without your knowledge, your relationship ties is getting loose and suffers. If you really had the intention and thought of spending time with your partner, you would not even have plans beforehand. 8 straight days without fail spending time with that same clique and only having your partner in the sideline is not a very nice thing. It's not as if you were meeting everyday to do work, plan some cheers or do some really important thing. When you classify a period as a "peak period", it means having important events or things to do. Things like hanging out, leisure outings or fishing are not at all under something important. A choice can be made whether you want to go for it or not. Maybe you really love the company of that clique of friends that your partner just don't contribute to any of your pleasures anymore. Or maybe you need a time out from your partner as you feel you have spent too much time together. Or you were just too engrossed in the new surrounding of friends that you don't realize that you do have other responsibilities towards your partner. Either answers don't really give something good for your partner to feel about. These has nothing to do with any of your lifestyle which contributes to your coming home very late at night as obviously your partner is used to it. But the failure of you to set aside at least a few days specially meant for your partner to spent quality time together will have an effect in a relationship. In the end, it is all up to the individual to really manage your time and acknowledge the feelings of your partner, especially when you are going into another camp soon as well as the re-opening of school.